It never fails. Every time I open TikTok, X (formerly Twitter), Instagram, or Facebook, someone is sharing a meme or cautionary tale about a group dinner turning into a math problem. The question of how to settle the bill seems never-ending, especially when it’s brought to the internet, with strangers adding their opinions into the mix.
When I read the comments, they’re always the same. “I’m not paying for what I didn’t eat. I’ll ask for my bill separately and leave a tip,” or “If we’re out and you start calculating, I will never go anywhere with you again. Just split the bill!” I’m fine with either, depending on the situation, but I can see why someone else would stand firm on one side.
Sometimes people splurge on a pricey cocktail or menu item, expecting the bill to be split evenly. In my opinion, this is when you should get separate checks. They’ll never admit to doing this, but you have to pay attention to their body language.
Others dislike making servers separate checks at the end, especially if it wasn’t discussed beforehand. Paying with one card and reimbursing the cardholder immediately is easier, but it can cause problems when people don’t send their portion on time.
Pay for your own meal
If someone orders a burger and fries while others order steak and seafood, I understand why they would want to pay strictly for their meal. The burger is likely cheaper, and they might only have enough to cover their own meal. Plus, if, for example, you’re at a birthday dinner with mixed company (people you know and friends of friends), just pay for your own food.
When to split the bill
If you’re out with friends and family, and everyone has similar meals in the same price range, splitting the bill makes sense.
Dining out with loved ones is supposed to be a bonding moment with chat sessions, good food, and enjoying each other’s company. Just pick a restaurant in everyone’s price range and have a good time.
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